{"id":18355,"date":"2026-03-26T14:38:20","date_gmt":"2026-03-26T19:38:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joalo.org\/?p=18355"},"modified":"2026-08-02T17:01:39","modified_gmt":"2026-08-02T22:01:39","slug":"putting-yourself-out-is-how-others-get-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joalo.org\/?p=18355","title":{"rendered":"Putting Yourself Out is How Others Get In"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There&#8217;s something deeply maternal about putting a book out into the world. All your hard work gets laid out there. Others are free to argue, critique, even tear it to pieces if they choose to. A part of you just wants to keep it to yourself. <strong><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\"><em>Safe and unspoiled is how we prefer our passions<\/em><\/mark><\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Wasn&#8217;t it Jeremiah who said, <em>&#8220;<mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3396ab\" class=\"has-inline-color\">His word was in my heart like a burning fire shut up in my bones; I was weary of holding it back, and I could not<\/mark>.&#8221;<\/em> (<mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3396ab\" class=\"has-inline-color\"><strong>Jer 20:9<\/strong><\/mark>) Well . . . that&#8217;s where I&#8217;m at. I cannot hold back\u2014not one more second. And honestly, it&#8217;s time to let it do all it was created for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This project wasn&#8217;t conceived solely for me. I shan&#8217;t be the same\u2014and if there&#8217;s one more soul who gets closer to Christ for having experienced it\u2014<strong><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3396ab\" class=\"has-inline-color\">it&#8217;s incredibly worth it<\/mark><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\"><em>All we who are born of God have eternal work to do<\/em><\/mark><\/strong>. Parents, Teachers, Bookkeepers, Caregivers, Farmers, Electricians\u2014each uniquely gifted for Kingdom work.<mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3396ab\" class=\"has-inline-color\"><strong> And we cannot afford to keep Jesus to ourselves<\/strong><\/mark>. There are prayers to be prayed, beds to be made. We have Truth to share, and meals to prepare. There are repairs to get done, and hearts to be won\u2014<strong><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">and we&#8217;re all in this Body building together in one Spirit<\/mark>!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;<mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3396ab\" class=\"has-inline-color\">For whoever does the will of My Father in heaven is My brother, and sister, and mother<\/mark>.&#8221; ~<strong><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#3396ab\" class=\"has-inline-color\">Jesus<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\">NOW AVAILABLE!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2613\" height=\"4000\" data-attachment-id=\"20299\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/joalo.org\/?attachment_id=20299\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/joalo.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash-4.png?fit=2613%2C4000&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2613,4000\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash (4)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/joalo.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash-4.png?fit=669%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/joalo.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash-4.png?resize=2613%2C4000&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20299\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.659825017734689;width:332px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/joalo.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash-4.png?w=2613&amp;ssl=1 2613w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/joalo.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash-4.png?resize=196%2C300&amp;ssl=1 196w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/joalo.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash-4.png?resize=669%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 669w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/joalo.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash-4.png?resize=98%2C150&amp;ssl=1 98w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/joalo.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash-4.png?resize=768%2C1176&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/joalo.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash-4.png?resize=1003%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1003w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/joalo.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash-4.png?resize=1338%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1338w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/joalo.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash-4.png?resize=1200%2C1837&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/joalo.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/getty-images-9OrF6J9AcVA-unsplash-4.png?w=2000&amp;ssl=1 2000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-roboto-font-family has-custom-font wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"font-family:roboto\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-black-color\">&#8220;Distractions are no accident. 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